We're getting married in the Bahamas next July. The dates, where to stay, and what to do about your passport are all below.
Elise & Tyler

The long version, from the beginning.
Four years between a dating app in Norman and a beach in Nassau. Here is what happened in between.
September 2022
We matched on Hinge.
These are the photos we matched on. Our first date was September 26, 2022, at the Outback Steakhouse in Norman, Oklahoma.


October 2022
Then we just kept going out.
Dates, drives, and a Sooners game while we got to know one another.


October 22, 2022
He asked her to be his girlfriend.
At Orr Family Farm in Oklahoma City, in the middle of the pumpkins.


February 2023
Our first Valentine's Day.


October 22, 2023
One year, back where it started.
Same pumpkin patch, same weekend, a year on.


May 2024
Our first vacation.
A week at Carillon Beach, Florida.



Thanksgiving 2024
Two years, celebrated late.
Elise had started her OTD program in Texas by then, so two years waited for a cabin weekend over Thanksgiving.


August 2025
Back to Carillon Beach.



February 2026
Archie.
Our golden retriever, and the best Valentine's Day gift either of us has managed so far.



May 7, 2026
He got down on one knee.
At the lighthouse on Lake Hefner in Oklahoma City.



August 2026
Carillon Beach, one more time.
Our most recent trip back to Carillon Beach.


July 24–26, 2027
Saturday through Monday. We recommend arriving Saturday, July 24 and heading home Tuesday, July 27, so you are there for all three days.
Sandals Royal Bahamian
Cable Beach, Nassau. All-inclusive, adults only, and right on the water.
Stay close to the celebration.
Rooms are reserved by the resort's wedding concierge rather than on the Sandals website, so that yours is booked under our group code and sits with the rest of the celebration. Guests must stay a minimum of three nights; we recommend Saturday, July 24 through Tuesday, July 27.
WG26185720
Jonessa “Aliyah” Auguste, Sandals wedding concierge. 1-877-726-3257 ext. 7784
Watch Sandals' 7-7-7 deal.
For seven days, Sandals takes an extra 7% off seven qualifying rooms or suites on top of its current promotions. The selection changes, so check the live offer and mention it when you reserve.
See this week's 7-7-7 offerYou're welcome to—with one important note.
Guests staying elsewhere in Nassau will be able to join us for the ceremony only. The reception is reserved for guests staying at Sandals Royal Bahamian.
You'll need a valid passport. If yours has lapsed, start the renewal now.
You also might be wondering…
Saturday, July 24 through Monday, July 26, 2027. The ceremony sits in the middle of a three-day weekend, and the full schedule comes with your invitation.
Sandals Royal Bahamian, on Cable Beach in Nassau. It is an all-inclusive beachfront resort, so once you land, everything for the weekend is on one property.
Fly into Nassau, airport code NAS. It is a short, direct flight from most of the US, and about ten minutes from the resort. You will need a valid passport, so if yours has lapsed, start the renewal now.
We recommend staying with us at Sandals Royal Bahamian from Saturday, July 24 through Tuesday, July 27. The resort requires a minimum three-night stay. You are welcome to stay elsewhere in Nassau, but off-resort guests may attend the ceremony only; the reception is reserved for guests staying at Sandals Royal Bahamian.
Through our wedding concierge at Sandals rather than the Sandals website. Email Jonessa 'Aliyah' Auguste at JAuguste@uvltd.com, or call 1-877-726-3257 ext. 7784, with our group code, WG26185720, and she will reserve your room under our wedding. Booking on sandals.com works, but your room will not be linked to the celebration.
Check Sandals' 7-7-7 offer before you book. For seven days, seven qualifying rooms or suites receive an extra 7% off on top of current promotions. The selection changes, so use the live Sandals specials page for current availability and terms.
Sandals is adults only, guests eighteen and up, so this one is a break for the grown-ups. Think of it as the vacation you have been meaning to take.
Resort wear. Comfortable and cool by day, a little sharper for one evening. Leave anything that needs pressing at home.
Email us at tyler@grayhavenindustries.com. We read every note and usually reply within a day.
Still wondering? — it answers from what is on this page, says so when something is not decided yet, and can take your rsvp.


Coming soon.
We haven't worked this part out yet. Check back a little closer to the wedding.
The date's set. The invitation's next.
A real invitation is coming by mail, with the full weekend schedule. Leave your email and we'll make sure it reaches you first.
Rather just email us? tyler@grayhavenindustries.com